Dr. Thomas Spencer Stark
October 4, 1960 ~ August 28, 2024
Born in:
Washington, D.C.
Resided in:
Nokesville, Virginia
Lisa Stark and their children, Josiah Toviel Stark, Daniel Joseph Stark, and Rebecka Elise Stark, survive Dr. Thomas Spencer Stark, who was with us from October 4, 1960, until August 28, 2024. Tom is also survived by his three siblings, Steve Stark, Sarah Stark Parks and Ted Stark. His family believes he is now beautifully happy, full of joy, and truly at peace with God.
We appreciate all of you, who have loved our precious Tom. He had a way of expressing appreciation and value for everyone who crossed his path. He will be sorely missed and yet we feel him with us. It gives us great joy to know that he is happy and at peace now!
Tom was an amazing man in his life, overcoming tremendous hurdles to become a beyond brilliant scientist in his field and a wonderful people-person. While with us, he expressed love and service in honor to the leaders in his sphere, both at work and in the communities in which he was involved. Tom was a tenderly loving and exceptionally committed husband and father. He showed up time and time again for his family. He also fostered peer-to-peer relationships with those needing the father-heart of God, which he embodied in his care for others. He possessed such a heart of service for others (“serving” was his love language) and he was a profound professional in the field of science and in his service in support of the Department of Defense. He was endearing to people of all walks of life and all ages. What a special gift God gave us all. Additionally, he loved small wild animals and upon moving to our home in the country, he grew fruit trees and all manner of wild berries and produce.
Finally, Tom was passionate to know love and be love. It is through this initial quest that he came to a saving knowledge of God and became an avid follower of His son. Tom loved the Hebrew roots of the faith and was a fantastic teacher of truths found in the original pictorial Hebrew language. The truth be told, Tom was “All in”!
We so appreciate the hearts of those who have reached out to comfort us, in this season of change, and all who have offered to help us in any way they can. You’ve been amazing – all of you! We are asking that if you would like to support our family with flowers or otherwise, that you direct your support, instead, towards our children in the absence of their father and his support to meet their school loans and education needs, as Tom was our sole breadwinner. Tom was always very passionate about his children pursuing their aspirations and careers; he went above and beyond to attempt to make sure their needs were met so that they would feel safe. So, this is our way of ensuring his dreams for them still have an impact. I know our amazing God is going to provide, wonderfully. He always does, when we believe and trust Him. We cannot express enough thanks for all of your love, support and kindness to us in this time. I know Tom is very pleased at the love you’ve shown us!
A church service for Tom will be held at Redemption House Life Center (502 Victory Way, in Pasadena, MD 21122) on Saturday, October 19 from 3-5 pm. All are welcome to join us.
A celebration of Tom’s life will be held at his home in Nokesville, VA, on Sunday, October 20 from 1:30-4:30pm. Please check back with us (link below) on the evening of Saturday, October 19 for address and parking directions. All are welcome to join us.
The family requests no flowers; details on an alternate show of love and support for the family will be available October 19, 2024.
Services
Memorial Service: October 19, 2024 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Redemption House Life Center
502 Victory Way
Pasadena, MD 21122
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I am heartbroken about to Tom he was truly one of the kindest person I have ever know I met him at church and He and his wife Lisa opened their house and family to he always helped me in my life he always wanted to know if I was OK and if I wasn’t he would come to my rescue. Tom was a godly man and I know he was called home but Tom is an example of a selfless person who cared for others because of his heart. I will miss him dearly and I am devastated but he is where he needed to be. I pray for his family and their healing.
So sad to hear this news of Tom’s passing. He was a kind neighbor, scout leader, volunteer and friend.
Lisa, Josiah, Daniel and Rebecca – you are in our prayers.
Suzanne Walker and Malachi & Jordan Walker
I understand that these days are difficult. Please know that you are not alone, as God is always with us. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, and we wish you all the comfort you need during this difficult time.
I worked with Tom and he was a very good person and honest. During our years at DoD, Tom and I had an inside joke where he always says: “But I’m one of the good contractors” and I’d replied “That’s what all the bad contractors say so stop saying that!” I will miss him very much.