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Fay Kazue Iuli

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September 17, 1944 ~ March 31, 2025

Born in: Kauai, HI
Resided in: Chantilly, VA

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Fay Kazue Iuli, born on September 17, 1944, on the beautiful island of Kauai, peacefully passed away on March 31, 2025. Fay is survived by her husband of 55 years, Matthew Iuli, her daughters, Michele Stefanon(Michael), Amanda Nunez(Jonathan), Mariko Weinhardt(Kurt), Alison Iuli (Bryan), and her cherished grandchildren, Katherine, Cole, Kaden, Benjamin, and Matthew. A woman of warmth and generosity, Fay found her greatest joy in her family and her faith in God. Her kindness and welcoming nature touched countless lives, and her presence will be profoundly missed. A service to honor her will be held at Corpus Christi Catholic Church in Stone Ridge, VA on Friday, April 11th at 10:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers and to honor Fay’s memory, contributions toward memorial expenses for her final resting place at Kauai Memorial Gardens may be sent to Amanda Nunez. (Venmo-@Mandajoyful)

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  1. Our dear Aunty Fay – Thank you for being such a wonderful example of Christ in this world. You will be missed.

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  2. Sending condolences to the entire family. Always a lovely, kind lady. Prayers for the family.

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  3. My dear beautiful, Mom – Oh, how I miss you so much. You are and will always be the light of my life. I will pray for our family every day and keep the FAYth for strength and peace. Mom, thank you for your love and grace, for your most caring heart, and for teaching me the ways of love and patience. Watch over us as you always do. I will forever carry you in my heart. I love you, Mom. xo Your loving daughter, Michele

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  5. Oh no. I loved her dearly and they say you should never procrastinate in reaching out to family and friends. I for one do this . I’m so sorry I never reached out to a dear friend. It’s been many years since I saw or talked to her and have so many regrets. I hope you know Faye I have never forgotten you my beautiful friend ❤️❤️❤️ always in my heart and all my thoughts and prayers to your family and friends. Rest in Peace Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  6. Oh no. I loved her dearly and they say you should never procrastinate in reaching out to family and friends. I for one do this . I’m so sorry I never reached out to a dear friend. It’s been many years since I saw or talked to her and have so many regrets. I hope you know Faye I have never forgotten you my beautiful friend ❤️❤️❤️ always in my heart and all my thoughts and prayers to your family and friends. Rest in Peace beautiful angel ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  7. Fay (Mom) and I had a special bond, just like any son would have with his mom. She welcomed me into the family at a young age and helped mold me into the man I am today. My favorite part was always making her laugh, and even if I wasn’t funny, I think she still laughed. She was a mom to me and gave me my amazing wife, who carries some of her great traits.

    The reality is, I am blessed to have met what I would think most would agree is one of the most genuine, kind-hearted, loving human beings anyone could ever meet. She made some of the best dishes (rock salt chicken).

    Fay’s legacy is that she welcomed everyone with true love, and that love made everyone closer.
    Ohana strong!
    Kurt

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  8. Oh Sweet, Beautiful, Kind, and Soooo Loving Aunty Fay! We will miss your physical presence, but we will always cherish the special memories and moments we’ve shared. Thank you for loving your Samoan nieces and nephews, and for always making us feel at home in your home. We love and miss you sooo much. Condolences and Love to Uncle Matthew Taisi and the Aiga xoxoxo

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  9. In June of 1984, I began working at Skadden Arps and Fay was my mentor. However, Fay was more than a mentor to me – she became my best friend. She welcomed me into her family and showed me how to be a friend, wife and mother. She attended my wedding and was there for the birth of my daughter. We traveled together, went to concerts, plays, movies and of course shopping. We laughed and cried over many glasses of wine.
    I will miss my BFF but know I will see her again. Until then, cheers Hon! I love you! 💜

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  10. My dear sweet friend Fay – I will miss her so very much!!! I met her when Alison was only 3 months old and we worked at Shaw, Pittman. During those days, we ate lunch together almost every day at our favorite Greek restaurant on M Street. Later we worked together at Skadden, and, when Skadden had a Reston office, we sat right across from each other – we worked very hard, but sometimes we laughed so intensely we cried. In all the time I worked with her, I don’t ever remember her being sick so It was a shock to loose her – certainly she would outlive me. It was once in a lifetime meeting and knowing someone like Fay and I feel so blessed that I knew her. Such overwhelming sweetness and kindness in one petite person! My heartfelt condolences go out to her family – their loss immeasurable. I love you, Fay “Miss Tsubakihara!” xoxo

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  12. Mrs Iuli is such a bright light and her soul will always be with everyone who loves her. Heaven has gained another angel, who is always going to love, support and guide her loved ones. My prayers go out to Michele and the whole family. 🙏

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  13. Some of my best high school memories are spending time in the Iuli household, which always felt so warm and welcoming. Fay Iuli was the driving force behind those wonderful feelings I experienced at such a crucial time in my life. Since Mrs. Iuli’s contagious smile and warm hugs imprinted on me at such a young age, I’ve carried the blessing of her specialness with me most of my life, which means that she has not only poured into me, but my own children who are now grown. I know Michelle, and the entire family are experiencing a great loss at this time, but I also know that they experienced a great LOVE & BLESSING in having Fay in their lives. I am so very sorry for the loss, but know that there is one more angel in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. 🙏🏽❤️

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